How we perceive failure

Failure is lack of success or lack of achieving a prescribed goal in one's mind. Failure ranges from an ordinary setback to the inability to fullfil one's life goal. Most of us fail. And many of us perceive failure as the end stage of an event, which leads to new problems.

So in this article we will talk about consequences of failure and how it effect us in long run.

First stage after failing to achieve something is stress. Yes, mental stress follows every failure. You will feel anxious, pressurized and in inigma. The bigger the failure is, the bigger the stress will be.

After a prolong stress there comes a stage of inactivity, where you do not want to do anything. You becomes moody and your mood swings becomes frequent. All of your energy starts to consume in you stressful mind, without realizing it.

After a period of inactivity we becomes accustomed to our mood swings. In order to bring some inner peace we starts to procrastinate. Instinaute our tommorow with out focusing on today. This phase is pleasant because we are in credulity to work tommorow without realizing that we are wasting our today. The victim of failure starts to live in future,he make big plans. But he never work on them though.

After this phase comes laziness. In which your mood  becomes passive. You deny any practical work and are always lost in your fairy dreams. 

Inorder to avoid all those problems we need to work on how we perceive failures. Start taking failure in an optimistic tone. "Your world will not end if you failed, life is full of Opportunities if you miss one, grab another.

Note: The above mentioned phases occurs without one's realization. So set your mind set after every failure you face. Take it as a challenge from the life because life kicks those who dare to punch it back.

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